Last year I took a course called Buddhist Memoir Writing, taught by James Kullander. It was a different approach to writing and it helped me find my voice. Now, I stalk James on facebook. He posted this article on his wall. He lives in France now. It's been over a year since I've seen him and still...he teaches me.
xoMonkeyME
I have to say, that these would not be my regrets. I work just enough to get what I need, keep my friends close, wear all my emotions on the outside, and I choose happiness (for the most part)everyday.
ReplyDeleteIf I were to leave this Earth tomorrow, I have to say, I would have said my "love yous" and have done everything except the laundry. :)
Whoa, that was intense.
ReplyDeleteI think happiness is learning to be grateful, because when we are grateful, there is no regret.
ReplyDeleteWow! Hate to sound like Frank Sinatra but I have a few regrets, but not enough to mention. As long as my kids are healthy it pretty good.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the link. I have felt many of these things as I've aged. I guess now's the time to change focus and make sure I don't have similar regrets.
ReplyDeleteLife is a series of choices, and we all make good choices and bad choices. Don't look back in regret, look forward in anticipation of what might happen.
ReplyDeleteThis touched an emotional nerve for me. Thanks for the link. This is one of those rare instances where a blog post wasn't self aggrandizing or a call for help or attention. It is now time to spend with family and friends.....IRL.
ReplyDeleteBTW - I wasn't making reference to your blog with the comment in my third sentence. Rather to blogs in general.
ReplyDeleteAmong other things, this makes me grateful to have been able to honor some of my dreams. Not everyone can, or does. Thanks for a thought-provoking post.
ReplyDeleteAfter reading the comments I've decided I don't need intense but I wanted to stop by and say "Hey" to the monkey.
ReplyDeleteFamily is still demanding my time.
Jules @ Trying To Get Over The Rainbow
I can't read it, but I will come back and try again.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this. I actually feel grateful after reading it. I think this part of my life is the icing on the cake. I've already lived so fully, that this part feels like such a gift.
ReplyDeleteI also worked a few years with the dying. They taught me so much.